Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page
As a couple counsellor I often find that it is useful and interesting for [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page
In situations where one or both of a couple have children with other partners, [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
Couples often tell me that they don’t seem to have time to spend on their relationship – with children and busy working lives, the relationship just gets “squeezed out” and when, at the end of the day, jobs [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
One of the most frequent issues couples bring to relationship counselling is that they have difficulty communicating. Sometimes arguments can flare up very quickly, often over silly things. Sometimes couples feel that they have nothing to say to [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
I offer supervision to counsellors from any theoretical background.
Just as the success of counselling hinges on the therapeutic relationship between counsellor and client, so, I believe, the success of supervision hinges on the supervisory relationship.
As a supervisor I [...]
It’s been a long time since I last blogged - what are my excuses? Well, I gave birth on June 5th 2009 to a beautiful bouncing baby boy called Noah. And that little darling is now 8 months old and still sleeps like a baby (i.e. not at all). I’ve never understood people when they [...]
It’s been a long time since I last blogged - what are my excuses? Well, I gave birth on June 5th 2009 to a beautiful bouncing baby boy called Noah. And that little darling is now 8 months old and still sleeps like a baby (i.e. not at all). I’ve never understood people when they [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
Sometimes we can become very stuck. We can become dispirited and demotivated, we can’t be bothered. Or perhaps there are so many little things to do that we can’t decide where to start, we spend all our time [...]
January is going very fast and before we know it the Piggy PM (20 February) will be upon us. Flyers and Press Releases have been sent out but let us know ifyou want one to distribute.
No guinea pigs have been rehomed yet and there are no prospective homes lined up so we start the year [...]
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
In relationships, we sometimes find ourselves caught in “vicious cirles” – patterns of behaviour that are destructive but difficult to change. For example, suppose one of you tends to be stricter with your children than the other. The [...]