Counselling in Wokingham – Family History

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page As a couple counsellor I often find that it is useful and interesting for [...]

Counselling in Wokingham – Step Families

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page In situations where one or both of a couple have children with other partners, [...]

Counselling in Wokingham – Where does the time go?

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com For more information about me click on a link on the right Couples often tell me that they don’t seem to have time to spend on their relationship – with children and busy working lives, the relationship just gets “squeezed out” and when, at the end of the day, jobs [...]

Counselling in Wokingham – Communications

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com For more information about me click on a link on the right One of the most frequent issues couples bring to relationship counselling is that they have difficulty communicating. Sometimes arguments can flare up very quickly, often over silly things. Sometimes couples feel that they have nothing to say to [...]

Counselling in Wokingham – Supervision

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com For more information about me click on a link on the right I offer supervision to counsellors from any theoretical background. Just as the success of counselling hinges on the therapeutic relationship between counsellor and client, so, I believe, the success of supervision hinges on the supervisory relationship. As a supervisor I [...]

Back to it

It’s been a long time since I last blogged - what are my excuses? Well, I gave birth on June 5th 2009 to a beautiful bouncing baby boy called Noah. And that little darling is now 8 months old and still sleeps like a baby (i.e. not at all). I’ve never understood people when they [...]

Back to it

It’s been a long time since I last blogged - what are my excuses? Well, I gave birth on June 5th 2009 to a beautiful bouncing baby boy called Noah. And that little darling is now 8 months old and still sleeps like a baby (i.e. not at all). I’ve never understood people when they [...]

Counselling in Wokingham – Moving Forward

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com For more information about me click on a link on the right Sometimes we can become very stuck. We can become dispirited and demotivated, we can’t be bothered. Or perhaps there are so many little things to do that we can’t decide where to start, we spend all our time [...]

New Year, New Happenings!

January is going very fast and before we know it the Piggy PM (20 February) will be upon us. Flyers and Press Releases have been sent out but let us know ifyou want one to distribute. No guinea pigs have been rehomed yet and there are no prospective homes lined up so we start the year [...]

Counselling in Wokingham - Polarisation

Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com For more information about me click on a link on the right In relationships, we sometimes find ourselves caught in “vicious cirles” – patterns of behaviour that are destructive but difficult to change. For example, suppose one of you tends to be stricter with your children than the other. The [...]